I love you

3 words I love you

 How important is it to say i love you?

So as girls we sometimes think into things a little too much at times, and sometimes think that our flings are

more than they really are in some cases, and we only realize this after maybe going through a breakup and

after saying the words ‘’but he said he loved me’’ so I think we can all agree that boys/guys or men [which

ever age group you are in] have definitely had times where they have said they love someone  whether or

not they actually do, because they think it’s what we want to hear, which definitely isn't fair to us because it’s

in those situation where we find ourselves with our girl-friends eating ice cream crying and wondering if he

really meant it, then and in that situation, how does the guy wonder why she is so upset, if he flat out lied to

her. If guys lie and say they love someone when he doesn't, or  just doesn't know yet,  and us as girls know

that this is totally unacceptable to say it if he doesn't mean it , then if we look on the other side of things how

Important in a relationship are the actual 3 words ‘’I love you’’? Especially when we are dealing with guys or

‘’men’’ in their early twenties,  a lot of the time the words don’t mean a lot anyways should we drop the fact

of how much they say the words and start looking at the things that could be a little more important like;

 How big of a part of his life are you?

Are you a priority?

Does he show his love with actions in replacement of the words? Etc.

, When you have been with someone for a

certain amount of time and those 3 words haven’t been said, is there a timeline?, is there a certain point

where they need to be said?  I feel as though this can be why they feel the pressure to say it when

they were never really sure if they meant it, I can see if we are coming to a certain point in a relationship

where we have been together for quite a long time and we deeply feel like  ‘’if he hasn’t said the words thenhe doesn't know’’ when it comes to these three words is there a certain timeline on when to call it quits or,

do actions speak louder than words?

Or

I love you.

Three little words that carry huge significance. In the first stages of romance, "I love you" is said all the time. It brings you closer, it deepens your connection and saying and hearing the words gives you that warm, fuzzy feeling.

So why does it stop?

After dating for a while, although "I love you" gets uttered on occasion, the frequency suddenly drops and in some cases it stops all together. Perhaps it is because you think your partner should know it without being told, perhaps you feel your actions say it for you. Maybe you are just so comfortable with how things are, it hasn't even occurred to you that your partner needs to hear it.

None of these reasons are necessarily bad. If you are happy and secure in your relationship and believe that your other half feels the same, why bother? They're only words, right?

Wrong.

No matter how long you have been with someone, telling them you love them is still important. Even if you don't need declarations of your partner's adoration for you, that doesn't mean they don't need it. Some people positively thrive on hearing they're loved and without it, doubt can begin to creep in.

Telling someone you love them is a confirmation of your feelings. Even people who have been together for years occasionally need to be reminded. While it may not give you butterflies in your stomach the way it once did, there is great comfort in the knowledge that after a long time together, you both still feel the same way.

In a long term relationship, people sometimes take each other for granted. Taking a little time during your day to say "I love you" lets your partner know how much you appreciate them, and if you're one of those people who finds it hard to say the words out loud, a soppy text message will suffice.

If you love someone, telling them shouldn't ever be forgotten. You never know when it will be too late, so if you're feeling it, be sure to say it.

Official post of the second half 

http://voices.yahoo.com/the-importance-saying-love-you-6184826.html?cat=41